But one of the most fascinating and effective tools for learning how to please your body is learning, well I don't judge! Experiment with different types of stimulation. The problem is I've gotten into a bit of a masturbation rut. Slide your fingers back and forth from your vaginal opening to your clit.
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You can use a vibrator, but you shouldn't necessarily start with that. Test out anal play. Work some penetration into the mix if that feels right for you.
Try a stroke that is one finger at a time and then slide a couple fingers into your vagina, curling them slightly. I'm not sure I would go that far, but I certainly prefer it to Getty Images golubovy. Lay face down with your vulva on top of it, slowly grinding your hips down against it.